My older sister and I have been estranged for over 20 years over much hurt that has not been forgiven; yet, both of us are now Christians. I do not believe we are honoring or glorifying God with this ongoing rift. I believe we are meant to encourage and uplift one another. It was GOD who made us sisters. ALL of God's ways are without fault. Psalm 18:30 The dynamic of sibling estrangement is one we saw with both our parents. We are heading into our 60's, and her children and mine never knew one another. I think breaking this cycle of estrangement would be healthy, and more importantly, God-pleasing.